Loving Memory of Ralph Fletcher
January 23, 1940 – July 18, 2025
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Ralph Fletcher, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and friend, who left this world to be in the arms of Jesus Christ at the young age of 85.
Ralph was the kind of man who left a lasting impression on everyone he met. Known for his big heart and even bigger hands—often covered in grease—he was a skilled and passionate mechanic who could fix just about anything with an engine. He was the kind of person who would drop everything to help someone in need. Whether it was a neighbor with a car that wouldn’t start or a stranger stranded on the side of the road, Ralph never hesitated to lend a hand.
But beyond the garage, Ralph was the true definition of love and selflessness. A devoted husband to Ruthie, his sweetheart and partner for 65 years, their bond was something rare and beautiful. He adored her deeply and stood by her side through every season of life. Together, they found peace in the simple pleasures—holding hands, matching shirts, gardening, Sunday drives and trips to the ocean. They never missed a chance to call and sing Happy Birthday to their children and grandchildren. They signed every card with XOXO.
He wasn’t just a great dad; he was the dad everyone wished they had. He was our hero, our steady hand, our safe place. To be loved by him was to know true warmth, patience, and unwavering support. He had a way of making life feel lighter, even on the hard days. With a kind smile, a listening ear, and the biggest heart, he gave his family everything he had and then somehow gave even more.
Being “Grandpa” was his greatest joy and proudest role. He was a storyteller, a soft place to land, a partner in mischief, and the ultimate fixer of broken toys. His grandchildren and great-grandchildren lit up his world—and he lit up theirs. He had a special way of making each one feel like the most important person in the room.
Though his hands are now at rest, the mark he left on this world—and in our hearts—will never fade.
Ralph is survived by his loving wife Ruth, his children Annette (Mike) Schanz, Perry (Connie) Fletcher, Daphne (Chris) Merrill, and Melinda (Pat) Rosentreter. Seven grandchildren: Justin (Heather) Schanz, Shaun Schanz, Ashley (Ryan) Booth, Matthew (Lindsay) Widder, Adam Rosentreter, Karah Schanz and Tyler Widder. Great grandchildren Hayden & Sebastian Schanz, Quinn, Lucy & Everly Booth, Oliver Widder, Dax Davis and Emmett Richards. Along with many other family and friends.
A celebration of his life will be held on Tuesday, July 22, 2025 from 11:00 a.m. to1:00 p.m. at Staffan-Mitchell Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you honor his memory by helping someone in need or doing something kind just like he always did.
Engines will still run, and roads will still be traveled, but they won’t be the same without him.
Rest easy, Ralphie, You've earned it.
